utteranonymity:

Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.

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im pretty sure the last 24 hours were exactly what personal days were meant for and yet, here i sit

im pretty sure the last 24 hours were exactly what personal days were meant for and yet, here i sit

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the accuracyyyyyyyy

the accuracyyyyyyyy

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the attic of the bookstore has instructions of how to turn the lights on and off for yourself because they assume youll be perusing by yourself.
heaven.

the attic of the bookstore has instructions of how to turn the lights on and off for yourself because they assume youll be perusing by yourself.

heaven.

as i sit here with a few inch scar pulsating in pain:

you people who have elective surgeries must be fucking insane

Thanks to the positive peer pressure of friends I had a dermatologist cut off that dark spot… 2 shots and 3 stitches later, I wait and welcome anyone’s  good vibes, since he actually opened our appointment with “Yeah, I expect that to be a melanoma.”

Thanks to the positive peer pressure of friends I had a dermatologist cut off that dark spot… 2 shots and 3 stitches later, I wait and welcome anyone’s good vibes, since he actually opened our appointment with “Yeah, I expect that to be a melanoma.”

… to hump day?

… to hump day?

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i woke up on the absolute wrong side of the bed. i hate everyone today, myself included.

the 90s mixtape radio hour reminded me this song ever existed.

fair to say the lyrics were… over my head at age 10.

my cousin did the un-ice-bucket challenge where she made a video that said she not only dontated to ALS but she donated to the ACLU in honor of mike brown.

so, not everyone on the internet is terrible and annoying these days.

I never fucking said that

—God, Buddha, Gandhi, The Dali Llama, Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Oscar Wilde, Sylvia Plath and everyone else probably (via thebatty)

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Another Sunday funday with the sorry squad

The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward. Also, a lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.

—Terri Conley, professor of psychology and women’s studies at the University of Michigan ( link )

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NIGHTNIGHT by DEDDY